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"think about your thoughts"

   There are so many articles written on judging others but I don't think the subject can be reiterated enough. People don't think before they say the words that are jumbling around in their heads. Everyone have emotions no matter who they are. It's not enough that media emphasizes bullying but will it ever be stopped?
    Please think before you speak your thoughts out loud.Even if you are just talking under your breath, people could still be offended.  I know some people that have said some hurtful words about me thinking I couldn't hear them, but I really did. However, I didn't confront the person about it cause it was no use. I was taught not to stoop down to the bullies level. I've had a hard time in life, but not like some others.
   The regular human being has feelings not matter who they are. If you are hosting a yard sale, for example, you shouldn't whisper behind the customers back when they turn away and walk to their car. It's not polite and actually very rude. I've had this happen to me. I've even had all kinds of comments mentions when people thought" I couldn't hear.  That's not very professional. However, what am I doing here? Talking about people who do this.
   Words hurt. I've realized the ones that talk the most have usually been hurt somewhere down the road themselves. I know people are gonna talk, but please be respectful. No one likes to be talked about, or whispered about unless it is good.  I can't say that a enough. It seems like that I've had more rude comments as an adult than I did as a youth. The endless nonsense and gossip has to be stopped somewhere along the road. Will it be you?

#22qawareness#beblessed

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